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Top Things I Remember About NYC as a Nine-Year-Old in 1964

Times Square in the 60s.

Times Square in the 60s.

It was 50 years ago next month: June 1964, the New York World’s Fair. I’ve talked before about being a Sally Draper contemporary, and indeed there was no Shea Stadium for me, but there was a yes to the World’s Fair, my first-ever visit to my dad’s hometown, New York. Although it’s pretty shocking to realize you can remember something that happened 50 years ago, so clearly, that subject is for another post.

Dad took me, and my older sister Kate and my younger sister Pati on this journey (to Oz). I knew instinctively that I wouldn’t stay in the place where we lived after just that one trip. But other than that, here are some of the great things I remember about New York in 1964 through the eyes of a 9-year-old:

  • Ice Delivery Truck – as in the block kind of ice, the kind that goes in an, you know, ice box, dropped on the ground in small business doorways in one enormous brick.
  • NYC’s distinctive odor! Something like a mixture of train oil and cat piss. I remembered that smell as a sense memory all these years, and still catch a whiff of it on certain streets in NYC, and nowhere else.
  • NY Harbor spray from the Staten Island Ferry.
  • The theater lights on Broadway. Richard Burton was on the marquee for his Hamlet.
  • Subways — and restrooms in the NYC subway — they seem to have disappeared, or I’m making it up and memory is not reliable.
  • All the people, the streets full of more people than I’d ever seen in my life, in all shapes, sizes and colors. All of them seemed dressed up to me.
  • Being in Manhattan was like always being downtown (my frame of reference was Milwaukee); there were no trees. Zero.
  • Carol Channing and Louis Armstrong singing “Hello, Dolly” on the radio, like once every half hour. And we sang along.
  • The Jingle-Jump: This weird toy that involved hopping and a ball tethered to your ankle. Google it. Was popular that summer.
  • My blond aunt (the only blonde in our family), her apartment, her 2 dogs and 3 cats and the 5 of us humans in her one bedroom apartment. The fact that she fed her dogs beef kidney, which she chopped up into little bite-sized pieces for them. They were poodles named Jacques and Guy.
  • Seeing the NYC skyline for the first time from the NJ Turnpike. It just, like, appeared. Again, like Oz. I was surprised the air was dirty.
  • The Unisphere at the Fair; also “It’s a Small World After All” at the Fair, the Futurama at the Fair.
  • Going to see the “Fall of the Roman Empire” flick, a 4-hour film starring glorious Sophia Loren and the hunky Stephen Boyd (OMG, an early crush, for sure) at an incredibly huge theater with grownups who were, again, all dressed up.
  • The road trip: Mostly remember the Chicago Skyway, the Appalachian mountains from the Pennsylvania Turnpike, and my dad’s aged relatives in Youngstown, Ohio. They were probably 60 or something.
  • Finally, hoodlums in my aunt’s UWS neighborhood snapped the antenna off my dad’s VW microbus! Now that area (78th/Amsterdam) is much more fancy.

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Those We Lost in 2013

So many people left my earthly circle this year, whether it’s friends’ parents, friends of friends, or acquaintances — it sure seemed like death was hovering over us more than usual. Maybe not, maybe I just paid more attention to it.

There were a few people I want to remember here, even if I did it before in the blog, as we close out the year I want to say goodbye once more.

Dennis Bogorad

Dennis Bogorad

Dennis Bogorad

Dennis died unexpectedly in his sleep last March. It was a great shock to all who knew him, and so devastating for his partner Mark and his other family and close friends. Dennis was one of my first fiction fans – someone who reached out into that internet ether and not only complimented me on my book “Benediction,” but wanted to get together to talk about it. What a way to flatter an author! So eventually we did meet. Dennis had also suffered through prostate cancer (a main theme in that book) and went on to found a number of discussion and support groups for gay men with those health concerns. He was a TV producer, sure, but he also brought those skills to his passion as an activist. He was one of those people who knew how to make things happen, and he leaves a great void in Los Angeles. You can read more about Dennis here.

 

Linda Palmer

Linda Palmer

Linda Palmer

Whenever I think of Linda I just can’t help but smile. She was just the most fabulous, bubbly, interesting, smart and wonderful woman! I just adored her. She’d been a studio exec, a wildlife photographer, a teacher and a writer. Probably many more things I don’t even know about! I knew her best as a writing teacher and then a writing colleague. She had such a way with students, so supportive and encouraging. Just the right amount, and not sentimental. She was, in a sense, very girly, but also very strong and independent. She was also someone to live her life on her own terms — something that so resonates here.

 

 

Joan Arnold

Joan Helen Arnold

Joan Helen Arnold

Finally, my aunt Joan Arnold, who died in August at 92. Here’s a link to her obituary on this blog that I wrote earlier this year. What more can I say about her? One of a kind. Another great example of someone who lived life on her own terms, fiercely independent, definitely a role model for me as yet another single person in a big city. She definitely proved that not only could you work and go to the theater and out to dinner and pretty much do everything you always did well into your 90s: She also seemed to prove, to me, anyway, that in a big way the numerical age we all have is just some “idea,” to which we ascribe certain prejudices of what we should or should not be doing. Whenever I think of myself as that weird old guy on the bike with the blue lights, I think of my aunt going to work everyday at 92 years of age (and being a respected and valued member of the staff while there).

“You are remembered for the rules you break.”  — Douglas MacArthur

 

 

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Kindle MatchBook, Amazon Finally Bundles Print And E-Books (and you, dear customer, get a better deal)

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A totally self-serving post – wait, aren’t they all? Well, I guess not, cause this one sure benefits Amazon more than it will ever in this galaxy benefit me.

Starting in October, if you want both the print book and the e-book of selected titles, you can get them at a discount when purchased together. Seems like a no-brainer, right? I guess it just took awhile for this to happen.

One of the nice things about the deal is that it’s retroactive – meaning, if you bought a print version of say, Benediction, back in 2009 and are just dying to have the e-book version of it in Kindle, you can get it for (I think) $1.99. Less than your morning latte, folks – and, there’s no tip jar.  
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Or, if you’re just buying The Forest Dark for the first time, you can get both a print book and the e-book together for under a sweet ten-spot. There might even be a few pennies change (which you can then use for that latte jar – – does anyone else think that those tip jars are getting a little out of hand?)

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Oh and you DO know you don’t actually have to have a Kindle device to read Kindle books, right? I still don’t have one of the official Kindle contraptions — but I’ve got the FREE app on my laptop Macbook, on my Android phone, and now even on the Nook I inherited from my aunt. Amazing world, eh, where a Kindle app works on a Nook. But it does.

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The Writer’s Friend: Gary Shusett, RIP

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Gary Shusett
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So many deaths in 2013! I saw the obits for Gary Shusett while I was in New York last month helping my dad with the arrangements following the death of my aunt.

I certainly didn’t want to not remark on Gary. He was such an original of the type that you still occasionally find in Hollywood, a link between those golden filmmaking years of the 60s and 70s and today (I know it’s weird to call the 60s and 70s golden years, but it’s all relative, right).

Gary died on August 9, the day after my aunt Joan, of cancer at 72, according the obit in the Times.

I took a couple of seminars from Gary’s organization, Sherwood Oaks College, over the years, mostly having to do with access to producers and agents, always hoping for that prime bit of perfect information that gets you a foot in the door.
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Gary was remarkable in his success at getting the major folks to appear at his seminars, a constant amazement that they actually would show up. I also found him to be genuine and honest – at times brutally so, about the role of writers in Hollywood and what were the best strategies for success (which may or may not dovetail with anyone’s personal ambitions).

I also did an internship with his company on script coverage, which was good training as well as just good for a writer to know how scripts and short stories (we read a lot of science fiction) are evaluated by readers.

He will be missed. I don’t know who will fill that void, but I certainly hope it’s someone. Another great loss from the writing/mentor world, who joins beloved teacher Linda Palmer in that Big Writers’ Room upstairs.

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Joan Arnold, 1920 – 2013

Joan Helen Arnold

Joan Helen Arnold

Tomorrow — Friday, August 16 2013, we will memorialize and bury my aunt Joan Arnold, who died last week (August 8, 2013) in a New York hospice at the age of 92.

The day before she died she told us that she wanted to get strong enough to return to work: “You know, I’m a workaholic,” she said. A pretty amazing force of nature, Joan had one job – and still had it the day she died – for at least 70 years, all of which were spent at Barnes & Noble Booksellers. Which means she started working for that company – which was only a local bookstore back then – during World War II. She once joked to me that they had to keep her on, at least to shelve the books, because she was the only one there who knew the alphabet, a not so subtle dig at how educational standards have fallen.

A single straight woman who never married and had no children, Joan was always a role model for me as she was so totally comfortable in pursuing her single life in the big city, always fiercely independent, even last year refusing to be walked up to her apartment door by a middle-aged relative. “I do this by myself every day,” she said, adamantly.

She led an enormously busy life as well. A season ticket holder to the Metropolitan Opera, I think she also saved every single Playbill for every play she ever attended – and she went to the theater constantly. Not odd, as she was a former actress and stage manager, having appeared in many Off and Off Off Broadway plays in the 1940s and 50s.

"Rehearsal--Robert Carson, director of the Tophatters, gives final instruction to his leading ladies before curtain goes up ... on the off-Broadway group's presentation of 'The Wallflower' at the Central Y. M. C. A., Hanson Place. At left is Joan Arnold. Beverly Zatt, center, plays the title role." (1952)

“Rehearsal–Robert Carson, director of the Tophatters, gives final instruction to his leading ladies before curtain goes up … on the off-Broadway group’s presentation of ‘The Wallflower’ at the Central Y. M. C. A., Hanson Place. At left is Joan Arnold. Beverly Zatt, center, plays the title role.” (1952)

One of the things I always admired about Joan was her volunteerism – within the last couple of years, she was still helping out at her church, where she made sandwiches for the homeless, as well as at the Natural History Museum (close by in her Upper West Side neighborhood) where she was working on a project cataloguing local island birds.

In the past, she was honored by former mayor Ed Koch for her work with the blind.

Next week we’ll leave her apartment forever to the NYC rental wars. This is bittersweet. This is the first place I ever stayed in NYC, as an impressionable child attending the 1964 New York World’s Fair, as well as the launching pad for my first solo European trip in 1974. When I visit New York in the future, I won’t have a living relative here, which seems very odd.

Yet Joan leaves an enormous legacy of spirit. I’m always searching for appropriate models to guide me on that future path. She’s always been near the top of that list, and will continue to be. Farewell, Joan. I’m honored to have walked you home.

A little bit more on Joan’s life, from my dad:

Joan was born in Akron, Ohio. The family moved to the New York city area in the 1920s and eventually settled In the Bay Ridge area of Brooklyn. Joan graduated from Our Lady of Angels grade school and Bay Ridge high school, and completed her education at Alfred University in upstate New York.

She graduated magna cum laude, majored in English and drama and won her class literary prize. Joan liked to travel. Besides seeing most of the USA, she also made trips to Russia, China and Egypt as well as western Europe.

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(Services were Friday, August 16 2013 at the Crestwood Funeral Home in New York; burial was at St. Charles Cemetery in Farmingdale, NY.)

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