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Sex Sells, and Sells Some More

As an independent and self-published author, I’m constantly evaluating the things I do to market my books. As we all know, one of the biggest truisms of advertising is that “sex sells.” And sells some more:

Take this blog, for instance. This one, the one you’re reading. Far and away the posts most viewed are the ones that have to do with gay sex in some fashion.

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A few years back I wrote quite a few posts on the older man/younger man dynamic. Those proved to be very popular here. They came out of a genuine surprise in my own experience that (probably starting in my 40s) I was suddenly hit on by hordes of twentysomethings.

I’m grateful to tell you that this has only continued and even increased as I get older.

My Instagram Top Nine from 2021

Yet I wonder if the subsets of those who appreciate mature male pulchritude and those who are actual fiction readers intersect.

Should I Get Naked in Front of the Camera?

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For instance, I was thinking about baring it all. Booking a photo shoot with any number of the great photographers in Southern California who focus on the male nude. I’m currently quite happy with my fitness level and think I look fairly good nekkid for a man about to be 67.

This idea didn’t come from nowhere. There’s a couple of people I can think of who’ve made a small cottage industry out of celebrating the mature gay male body. I think it’s great! It’s not like any of us who’ve survived past 50 just sit in our parlors all day sipping tea and listening to the clock tick. (OK, maybe that’s what we’ve done for the past two years, but heck, it was a pandemic.)

Any Publicity is Good Publicity

So why not show/do something that could be an evergreen Internet magnet? The old saying that “any publicity is good publicity” is mostly true (which I’ve determined after many years in public relations).

Then again there’s the question: Would people who like to look at sexy naked pictures of older men also be the people who buy books? My guess is that for most, probably not. But some would. There’d be a few.

It’s also a long-term proposition. It’s that spark of awareness of something which grows over time to be curiosity, and then to conversion (to use the selling term). Stranger things have happened.

Sex sells, then sells some more. The video attached is a compilation of the most popular 2021 posts on my Instagram. It’s a teaser for what might follow. As Marilyn said, “I’ll keep the radio on.”

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Real Stories of Older-Younger, Man to Man Sex 2: Nick

So Nick isn’t his real name, and that’s not really his photo, either. Needed something to make you look, did I not? Anyway, here’s another older-younger meet, and how I remember it.

Nick lives in a city in the same state as I do, a city I used to live in myself and that I often visit, though less so in the last couple of years. Hopefully, that will be rectified, and I can see Nick and others like him more often.

I’m not sure exactly which app I met Nick through, but I am sure it was internet-mediated. Absolutely did not meet on the street or in any other meet-cute sort of way. I’m somewhat sure it was daddyhunt (daddyhunt.com) and as I think I’ve stated elsewhere, even if I didn’t meet that many guys in sheer number from silverdaddies or daddyhunt, the quality of those I did meet with what I was looking for (and what they were looking for) was way more on target every single time than the all-ages focus of apps like Grindr and Scruff.

I was staying with a relative the first time I met Nick and although it was initially kind of embarrassing to let this straight woman know I had a (hopefully) sexual liaison planned. I got over it, though, and she was eminently cool about it though I detected some hesitation on her part about the difference in our ages. She got over that and I got over feeling slutty.

Anyway. I met Nick at a pre-arranged coffeeshop, late afternoon. It was raining, as is kind of normal for this city. We had the requisite coffee and donut or cookie. Nick was around 30, about my height (5-7, could have been taller but not by much), light brown or dark blond hair. Build substantial, not fat, more like corn fed very healthy type of composition. He was charming and enthusiastic, maybe just a touch unsure of himself, which to me made him even more desirable, at least in the moment.

We both knew that this was most likely not an ongoing romance, but we did want to have sex, and neither of us had a place where we could host (he lived with roommates; I was staying in my relative’s living room with her cat), but Nick was resourceful. He knew of a place fairly close by that rented jacuzzi rooms by the hour.
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A short bus ride (yes, we took a city bus together to our tryst) away, this love location was an all-orientation business. In the individual rooms, there was not only your very own jacuzzi, but a full size bed (actually, I think it was an air mattress but a very substantial one with a high base), and a shower. In the cool and rainy weather the room was also heated appropriately so it was perfectly comfortable to get naked — which we did.

Can I tell you how much I do love having sex in a water environment? Because I do; because of residual effects from prostate cancer, the inevitable tiny leaks I experience when having sexual activity upright were just frankly not noticeable. Which I appreciate.

So most of the action between Nick and I occurred in the jacuzzi, and it was consummated, you might say, on the bed. We didn’t take longer than our hour, but we did make the most of it. There even was time for some cuddling and spooning and pillow talk. Nick had (has!) a large penis and did not seem to realize this much (or, at least, at this stage in our interactions, he did not say anything to emphasize this) which was a bit of a surprise. Obviously, it was an extra added attraction to the jacuzzi room.

We kept in touch via the Internet and still do. It’s great to see some of the younger guys I’ve known this way finish schooling and start careers (the case with Nick). We’ve gotten together since that initial time and probably will again, if I can make a visit and we can time it right. By now he’s had more experience with men and knows his size is something, let’s say, above average, and has told me thus and how he wants to use it to more effect with me. I say go for it. I’d like that.

 

 

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Gay Sex: 8 Differences between a Man of 30 and his Older Partner (Or a Man of 60 and his Younger Partner)

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I’m not a sexologist. But I’ve noticed the differences between younger and older sex response as I’ve aged. So — this is just my opinion on having gay sex for 40-plus years. I thought of eight differences in older/younger couples vis a vis sex. If I think of more, I’ll add them.

  • A young man wants to have sex late at night (or is OK with having sex late at night); and an older man takes that song “Afternoon Delight” quite seriously.
  • A young man considers his first load in a session the ice-breaker; an older man is just really happy if it happens. And then it’s over for now (bye).
  • In my experience, younger guys can still get hard at the drop of a hat, or the mere suggestion of a drop of a hat. Older men’s response is different, requiring actual physical manipulation (i.e., rubbing, sucking) of the penis to achieve a really good erection.
  • A younger guy wants to be the bottom for the older guy — this is my experience, anyway, in like 95% of the cases. Daddy is also living for that other 5%. (Some of us get nosebleeds at those heights.)
  • No matter who takes on the role of top and bottom during the sex, for the spooning the older man wants to be the big spoon and hold his younger lover in the protective caress.
  • For the older partner, the big O, while still desired and nice, is not so much the be-all and end-all to sex. Affection, kissing, hugging, petting (or whatever you want to call it) as well as oral or anal sex slowly, even without an orgasm, is just as nice.
  • While the younger man will like to have his sex almost anywhere or in any position, the older man in the couple will like the option of lying down, preferably somewhere comfortable — like a bed. With pillows.
  • An older man sees the (multiple facets of) value in having an ongoing partner or partners; the younger guy may likely still be in the sowing oats years. Truth is that as you age, fewer men are interested in the oats, though the ones that are, are usually a higher quality!

What have I neglected to add? What do you think?

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